Wednesday, June 13, 2018
Women and sometimes their partners are often scared to have sex during pregnancy because they think it might harm the baby in one way or the other. Questions most pregnant women want to know about sex during their trimesters is; how safe is sex during pregnancy? Is there a time limit for sex during pregnancy? Are there specific positions for sex during pregnancy? How do I tell my partner I’m not in the mood? There are so many questions they want answers to, and while it is advisable to always consult your doctor and discuss certain things that you need clarification on, here are some things you should know about sex during pregnancy:
Misconception about sex during pregnancy
It is a popularly held belief that having sex during pregnancy can harm the fetus and probably cause a miscarriage. This is not true. Pregnant women can enjoy sex during all trimesters of their pregnancy. All they need to focus on is eating the right diet to keep them healthy and in the right mood for sex when it arises. The only time you may be advised by your doctor to stay away from sex is if you’ve had series of miscarriages in previous pregnancies. This is the only time that you will be required to abstain at least three months into the pregnancy. Also, if you are experiencing some pregnancy complication such as preterm labor, preeclampsia and so on, you may be advised to stay away from sex for the meantime. Other than these reasons, nothing is going to happen to your pregnancy
It is quite through that some women may feel less interested in sex when they are expecting, but this doesn’t apply to all women. Most times, they are just stressed because of the extra weight they have to carry about. Here is where the partner would need to be patient and helpful. Doing things for your partner such as foot massage, breakfast in bed, ice cream treat, will make her oiled and ready to please you in bed. Although, the sexual desire may decrease around the third trimester when the baby bump becomes too heavy and delivery is close by. Some sex positions might be difficult to perform at this time.
How to enjoy sex during pregnancy
First of all, you will have to be more communicative with your partner during this period. Keeping them in the dark and expecting that they would understand your every mood is wrong. If you don’t feel strong enough to go through sex that beautiful morning because of some mischievous pregnancy hormones of which morning sickness might probably be the end result, then you shouldn’t hesitate to discuss it with your partner.
When having sex, you will have to avoid some exciting things you did prior to conceiving like oral sex. This is because it is easy for a pregnant woman to be infected during this time due to the weakness of the immune system. Practices such as blowing air into the vagina should be avoided as it could end up blocking a blood vessel which could harm you and the fetus.
Sex positions such as spooning or side by side are more realistic during this period. If you are experiencing mild pain during sex due to vagina dryness, a lubricant with higher water content, or, a well-lubricated condom can be used to make down there slippery and enjoyable again. Also, engage more in cuddling and kissing which will release some feel-good hormones-dopamine to help you and your partner through the stress of having a baby.
Sunday, May 20, 2018
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder is an illness that affects a big number of people. It’s characterized by the inability to hold focus for prolonged periods of time and by general restlessness and hyperactivity. If you’re a sufferer of this disease, then you have definitely seen a doctor for it. Chances are that you have been prescribed medication for treating your illness. However, did you know that some of the ADHD medication can influence your sexual health in a bad way?
One of the most frequently prescribed medications for ADHD is Methylphenidate. This is a medical drug that’s been shown to be beneficial to people suffering from ADHD. However, this medication is also used for treating various other health problems, such as narcolepsy and depression.
Most people that use Methylphenidate have no sexual health problem whatsoever. Even more so, they may improve your sexual health because of the higher degree of control that they can exhibit during their intercourse. However, some people are unlucky in this sense and they have issues with their sexual health due to the use of Methylphenidate.
The side-effect of taking this drug, when it comes to your sexual health, are lack of sex drive, priapism, and potentially painful erections. For those of you that aren’t aware – priapism is a condition in which you have an erection for several hours. This may seem like a good thing – but it’s too much of a good thing. This may cause damage to your penis and you may experience painful erections as well. This is not a good thing that can happen to you.
So, what can do you do to resolve these issues that you may be having after taking Methylphenidate? The first course of action if you find that you have any problems with your sexual health is to consult your doctor. He or she will be able to tell you all about your condition and how you can manage it. Perhaps he or she will prescribe you another drug that you can use for the management of your ADHD, one that won’t cause any problems with your sexual health.
Also, make sure that you handle all of the other parameters of living a healthy life. Exercise and diet go without saying. You need to workout and keep your body in tip-top shape – and you also need to eat healthy foods that will help you fuel your body. Using penile creams can also be of assistance in managing your sexual health.
That being said, you are now armed with all the information you need to manage your potential sexual health problems as related to taking the drug Methylphenidate for treating ADHD. If you follow the advice from above, then chances are that you will definitely feel an improvement in your sexual health no matter who you are. We hope that the ADHD drugs will stop causing you any problems related to your sexual health as a man.
Sunday, May 6, 2018
Doing the same thing over and over again is not only boring, but also frustrating. The same thing applies to sex. When you have sex in the same location, probably the bedroom, you will be tempted to see sex as just a routine that should be done and gotten over with, which is not what sex is meant to be.
Imagine having sex in a new exciting spot that could make your adrenaline rush and give you multiple orgasms. Let’s check such spots out:
Do you have a car parked in the garage? Then this should be your next spot to have an exciting sex experience. Head over to the back seat and do your doggy or missionary position. You can even try the face off while you are still there. The excitement of doing it in a different location accompanied by the thought of getting caught makes sex more intense as it is more of a hurried act than just drooling in your bedroom. Just make sure your car is packed in your garage and it’s night out if you want to avoid any embarrassment.
Do you have an airy and spacious balcony with a great view? This is one of the best places to get your sex games on. Feel the cool evening breeze while you slid down on your partner’s penis when engaging in the love seat or face off position. You could also try the ballet dancer or quickie fix while you are there. You think someone might be watching from outside? That’s their problem, not yours. You are in your house after all.
Do you have a sunroom? Then what are you doing stuck in your bedroom? Your sunroom not only gives you a lovely view of nature while you are grinding, you could also have the feeling you are actually having fun outside your house. You can try the water fall or couch surfer position on your sofa.
This is a great place to try if you want to spice up your sex life. You have a kitchen table? It makes the experience a whole lot better. The iron chef, doggy, rest room attendant position is great for the kitchen spot as you can use the shelf or table for support. You can also do a bit of oral sex by lying on the table with a leg up while your partner stimulates your clitoris with his cold tongue( he can dip his tongue in iced water or place a piece of ice on his tongue before giving you head). It’s easy to get ice when you are around the kitchen.
If you have kids, you might want to drop them off with grandma or a family friend. You don’t want anyone barging in on your special moment. Try out all the benefits of doing it in the living room. You can do the standing and seating wheelbarrow, lazy Susan, doggy and others. You can even make it more interesting by transporting your bed foam from the bedroom to the living room or probably get yourself sex foam which is more portable. Then you can try out various sex positions in a different spot.
Sunday, March 18, 2018
Making love with a virgin girl is very different when you make love with a non-virgin. It will be a very emotional process for her and is your responsibility to calm her down so she will have a unforgettable and pleasurable session.
A virgin girl will be extremely passive in bed (unless she is the wild one!). So you must take a lot of initiative in bed and tell her what you want to do with her.
Remember: making love to a virgin girl is a very emotional occasion for her. The memory of having sex for the first time will last forever in her mind. You would NOT want to spoil her first time.
Don't be a jerk.
Now, let me share with you 5 tips you should know when making love to a virgin girl.
Tip One: Calm her down. She will probably be extremely nervous in bed and you should try your very best to calm her nerves. Spend some time cuddling together and give her a little alcohol to calm her down. Assure her that everything will be fine and you will take care of her.
Tip Two: Be sensitive. Do not go hardcore or explore popular kama sutra positions when you make love to a virgin girl. Go for something simple like the Missionary Position so that you will not freak her out.
Tip Three: Reassure her that you know what you are doing. A virgin girl needs a lot of assurance from their man. It is your responsibility to assure her that you know what you are doing as she is giving her first time to you. She will need a lot of care and concern and demonstrate how much you love her by going the extra mile.
Tip Four: Don't enter her when she is not wet enough. As this is her first time having sex, her vagina will be very sensitive. If you enter her before she gets wet, she will experience a lot of pain and may bail out. You would not want this to happen, right? So spend some time on foreplay. Turn her on by kissing and licking her erogenous zones such as breasts, neck, spine, inner thighs, earlobes, lips, etc.
Tip Five: Slow down during intercourse. Do not go thrusting like a porn star during intercourse. Be gentle and start off with a very slow pace. During intercourse, cuddle and make her feel loved. Be sensitive and ask her if the pace is right for her. If she does not have any issue about it, gradually increase the pace of your thrusts until she reaches intense orgasm.
I hope that these 5 tips can make you a better lover with making love with your virgin girl.
Do your best to give her an unforgettable night. Don't spoil it.
However, in order not to spoil her night, you must be able to last longer during intercourse. You can't ejaculate before she gets an orgasm.
Friday, February 23, 2018
We all know the importance of exercise in the sense that it has a big influence on our health. In fact, exercise is one of the few scientifically proven ways in which you can improve your health, and practically all doctors recommend people to exercise in most cases. But what happens if you wish to exercise for the purpose of increasing your sexual attractiveness? Is this something that can be done? Well, exercise will improve your sexual life and fitness, and health and fitness are universally acclaimed as sexually attractive.
But, this article will delve a bit more specific into women’s weightlifting and as it relates to the level of their sexual attractiveness. The reason for this is the fact that many women look at weightlifting as something that will decrease their sexual attractiveness. So, if you see a woman in the gym, in most cases she would be lifting very small dumbbells of a kilo or two, for billions of repetitions. Okay, it’s not billions – but it is in the hundreds. Women believe that this will help tone their muscles without increasing their muscle size – which some people think is unattractive in a woman. Exercise like kegel exercise can improve sexual performance, this will improve your sexual health as well.
But is this the truth? Will lifting hard weights decrease a woman’s sexual attractiveness by definition? We don’t think so. You see, men and women have one big difference in how fast and how far they can go with the increase of muscle size. And this difference lies in their hormonal profiles. Women have a lot more of the hormone of estrogen, and men have a lot more of the hormone of testosterone. Now, testosterone is greatly important for the building of strength and muscle size. This is not to say that women don’t have testosterone in their bodies at all – it’s just that men have high level of testosterone. So, for the same work in the gym – men will on average build a lot more muscle mass than women.
So, as you can see, weightlifting will not make you a hulk of a woman – unless you overdo it. If you work out three hours a day lifting hard weights for many repetitions – then you too may go to having an excess level of muscle mass. But if you keep things normal, then you will build a healthy level of muscle mass – which is always attractive with the opposite sex.
And the images that you might have seen of women that look like Hulk are most likely due to the use of performance enhancers such as steroids. No matter who you are – if you take steroids and work out you will get big. This goes especially for men, but it’s also the case with women. But if you have a healthy workout regime and a healthy diet, without the use of these supplements that may be detrimental for your health – you will find out that weight lift can indeed have a very powerful effect not on decreasing – but on increasing your sexual attractiveness as a woman!
Wednesday, January 31, 2018
What do you think of when you hear the words “female ejaculation”? Come to think of it, the answer may be best kept to yourself.
Some women express liquid from their urethra when they climax. For some, this consists of a small amount of milky white fluid – this, technically, is the female ejaculate. Other women report “squirting” a much larger amount of fluid – enough to make it look like they’ve wet the bed.
Female ejaculation is something that is rare but not because men don't know what they are doing in bed. The reason why so many women don't have an ejaculating orgasm is because they are afraid to do it. Women worry about so many little things in the bedroom, like how they look, if their bodies look good and so on, so a woman is not going to want to have an ejaculating orgasm and shoot liquid out from her most private area. If you want to make her ejaculate, then there are some secrets you need to know.
First of all, if you want to make her have one of the best orgasms of her life, then you need to get her to open her mind and let her body go loose. If you want to make her ejaculate, then she needs to get her head in a different state of mind. She has to loosen up and forget about the little things. She has to be okay with letting go and allowing her body to do this. Once she is in the right frame of mind and agrees to let go and let whatever happens, happen then you can start things off right.
Your main focus in the beginning should be on the clitoris because this is how you are going to get her aroused to start off with and it makes your job a little easier. Once she is a little aroused and lubricated down there, then you can start stimulating her g-spot, which is the powerhouse of female ejaculation.
The g-spot has to be your main focus point because this is how she is going to ejaculate. Use two fingers to stimulate the g-spot, moving inside of her body, going fast or slow depending upon what she can handle. When she is about to orgasm, then you need to slide your fingers out of her and work on the clitoris again.
This is how you push her orgasm along but make room for the ejaculate to expel from her body. Be prepared with towels or other sheets because guaranteed this is going to be wet.
Giving a woman an ejaculating orgasm is something that not a lot of men can do, but if you can assure your woman that you want her to do this and that it is going to be a huge turn on for the both of you, then how can she not give in?