Tuesday, November 14, 2017
So… you’re in a monogamous relationship with a person for quite a while now, and while everything else in life is going smoothly – your sex life has taken a beating. There are many reasons why people’s sex lives go to ruin after a prolonged period with a single person – the lack of novelty, the diminished excitement, the routine… but this does not need to happen in all cases when you’re in a committed long-term relationship with someone. So, how can you go about in spicing up your sex life?
Having public sex
Think back to the time when you were really young. What was one of the most stimulating and exhilarating sex experiences that most people craved? Public sex should top this list. The thrill and excitement that you will experience from being half-naked (or fully naked) and having sex in a place where someone can see you is like nothing you have ever felt in life before. So, public sex is an excellent way to spice things up in a boring sex life. The most important thing don't get yourself caught.
Introduce sex toys
There’s somewhat of a stigma on sex toys. It’s widely considered that they are only to be used by the sex maniacs, or people that have incredibly high sex drive. But this is far from the case – as the sex toys when used effectively, can have a very powerful effect to improve your sexual life with your partner. There’s a huge choice in this field – you can buy handcuffs, whips, blowup doll – anything you want. Make sure that you talk with your partner on the subject, as they may get offended if you offer a sex toy without consulting them first.
Have a threesome
On par with the idea of public sex is the idea of having a threesome. This is the biggest fantasy of all men. You need to be very careful when executing this plan though – because if you just blindly jump into the experience you may ruin a long-term relationship by getting a crush on the third person, and all hell may break loose. Again, it’s best to discuss the subject in depth with your partner, so that you will know when to pull the breaks if needed. But the threesome has a huge power to spice up your sex life if performed right.
Get wild in bed
Having sex is the perfect time to indulge in your animalistic drives – all people have this drive up to an extent. The worst thing that you could do is to suppress this drive. You’ll make one of the most exciting sexual experience, sex, boring. So, be wild. Be rough. This will create a sexual tension and it will make your sex drive and that of your partner shoot through the roof. Of course, don’t overdo it – you can be a sex machine in bed, just make sure that you don’t harm your partner or yourself in the process.
There are many other different ways in which you can spice things up in your sex life – try one from the list above and you will succeed in spicing up your sex life effectively.