The Type Of Sex Most Women Want

What type of sex do you think women want? Most women want to experience a sweet romance that will give them maximum sexual pleasure. Ladies also want to achieve orgasm and the only way that can happen is that the opposite sex which is the man should be ready with all romantic sand sexual aesthetics he has got to drive them home.

Most men experience orgasm during ejaculation but most women do not experience orgasm during every sexual intercourse. However, except a woman is frigid, it is possible to help her reach orgasm during sexual intercourse. First of all, begin with foreplay, with the intention to stimulate and arouse each other to the maximum. The woman needs this more as it will help her cover a reasonable distance towards orgasm, start with hugging, touching, caressing and kissing. Touch and fondle every sensitive part of one another in romantic forage and without any inhibition or restrictions. This pleasurable romantic exercise should ideally continue for a long duration, long enough to help the woman attain a level of sexual arousal needed to experience orgasm during the real exercise. At the time of entry, the man is not expected to rush in. Take time to knock severally, wait, peep in and out as many times as possible and finally ease yourself in. As you go in, remain motionless for a period and savour the overwhelming passion of love making. Finally, work yourself up into a crescendo called orgasm.

The resolution stage in men contains a refractory period of several minutes to a few hours, during which the man is incapable of further sexual arousal. Women have no such refractory period and can quickly become aroused again from any point in the resolution stage.

Women needs to know that after every ejaculation, men needs some reasonable time to replenish sapped energy as he loses some calories during ejaculation. The recovery time varies differently.

In conclusion, sexual activity in general have been reported as having health benefits as varied as increased immunity by in creating the body's production of antibodies and subsequent lower blood pressure, and decreased risk of prostate cancer. Sexual intimacy and orgasms increase levels of the hormones oxytocin also known as love hormones, which can help people bond and build trust. Oxytocin is believed to have a more significant impact on women than on men, which may explains why women associate sexual attraction or sexual activity with romance and love more than men do. A long-term study of 3,500 people between the ages 18 and 50 by clinical neuropsychologist David Weeks indicated that based or impartial ratings of the subjects' photographs, sex on a regular basis helps people look significantly chronologically young.

Causes of frigidity

During the sexual revolution in the 1970s, a catholic priest – Don Paolo Liggeri, has shared his views on intimacy between partners. He said that when one of the partners is not completely synched with the other, this doesn’t give him or her the right to be passive because they not only have the duty to be available for the partner, but they need also to find a way to make the intimate act more pleasant. If we are talking about frigidity that can be treated, it is a moral duty to take a treatment because this is what compassion with the partner demands. Now let’s see what frigidity actually means.

Sexual coldness in women or frigidity is determined in a broad range – from complete inaction by women to sexual arousal to the inability to achieve orgasm. In this sense, we can make difference between: frigidity that emerges due to low level of sexual needs, which is usually attributed to innate or so-called constitutional reasons, which may or may not be related to hormonal disorders; the inability to experience satisfaction or orgasm, the inability to have an orgasm in certain situation or inability to achieve orgasm through any other way than coitus or vice versa.

There is no doubt that the specific sexual education of women in childhood and the early stage of sexual maturation or puberty plays an important role in the development of frigidity. Punishing actions conducted by parents or teachers at the stage of preparing of female child for achieving sexual pleasure like reading erotic literature, sexual fantasies, watching pornographic videos, sexual games with other children or punishing actions in the phase of so-called consuming behaviors like masturbation, play a very important role too.

There is considerable empirical evidence to suggest that these punishing measures can direct sexuality in a wrong direction. For example, it was proven that women get more excited while reading some harmless romance novel than watching pornographic videos. On the other hand, educational measures used for penalizing consuming sexual behavior of female child can lead to development of women who completely reject sexuality as a communication act which creates closeness and satisfaction. Punishment, therefore, logically produces fear so one part of women with frigid behavior is explained by their fear of sex as a result of certain traumatic event or via information that sex is dirty, shameful, immoral or exploitative.

It is good to point out that nor all forms of frigidity have psychological nature and a number of them can be attributed to organic causes like hormonal imbalance, local organic diseases (in the intimate area) or certain chronic illnesses that put sexuality in the second place and survival to the forefront.

One of the best ways to treat frigidity is psychological therapy. During these sessions, the patient and doctor exchange information and women acquire new knowledge about sexuality which leads to increased self-confidence and development of communication skills. In addition, during these sessions, women learn how to reduce anxiety and fear of sex and sexual situations. 

Find out more about your sexuality through sensuality

It takes two for a good sex and lack of passion can ruin the sexual intercourse. There are many reasons why some people lack passion and one of them that bothers many women today is the relationship with their own body and sexuality. These things are happening inside our head, but they are manifested in all body parts.

Sex is essentially a very complex process that is associated with the hands, eyes, skin and genitals that need to transfer those feelings to the brain. On the other hand, the brain must recognize this information as sexual arousal. The brain must connect all these small elements like images, feelings and sensations into a whole and send a positive feedback through the body. Sex is best when your brain and body are fully aligned and it is necessary to indulge in what you feel both physically and mentally in order to feel relaxed and excited, surrounded only by the feeling about what’s going on between you and your partner.

Although this explanation may sound very simple while others may find it complicated, but whatever you think about it, the main questions is whether you are achieving the things we have described or not. The connection with our body is learned, which means that it can be altered or learned anew.

This will probably take a certain amount of time or can even be a process that will last for years, but the fact that you will be able to enjoy the results it is worth trying. So, how exactly can begin with the process of improvement of the relationship between your body and mind?

Firstly, you have to accept the fact that your body is an equal partner with your mind. You are your body and your mind and vice versa. Many people treat their body as some kind of space in which they live or a place where they souls live and they pay attention to the body only when something isn’t right. But, when we look at the reality, the only way we perceive the experience from the outside world is through our body. The body can’t be subordinate or dominant.

Secondly, you must learn to listen to your own body signals. This can be achieved if we spend few minutes a day sitting and doing nothing and focus all your attention on what you feel physically. Let your body talk to you and try to feel what’s happening around you through your body. Once you learn how to listen to your body, there is a possibility to start feeling some signs of discomfort. Maybe you are tense, stressed, tired, upset or something is causing physical pain. Try to solve these problems with relaxation, sleep, healthy diet, physical activity and taking care of your body in general. Finally, learn how to live in your body, instead of looking at it from the outside. 

In order to restore your sensuality during sex and feel the changes in your body, passion and excitement you should focus on the things that are going on around you at the given moment. Empty your mind of everything except the feelings and sensations. You must submit to the moment and live only for that moment. If you don’t have a lot of self-confidence, try with masturbation first and explore your body for a longer period of time. This is the same sexual experience that can help you discovering your own body.